The shelf on paper
The whole shelf as one list, made to print and carry. Take it to any library branch — a librarian can find every title from here — or stick it on the refrigerator and circle what looks right.
The Open Shelf · shelf.goodprotocols.org · a free formation library from Good Protocols, Columbia City, South Seattle.
Every title below can be borrowed free: ask at any Seattle Public Library or King County Library branch, or search seattle.bibliocommons.com. The library card is free for everyone — no status, no fees.
The parent's own shelf (for grown-ups)
- The Room Your Family Has Been Looking For · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- Reading the Grain · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- On Children — On Children (from The Prophet) · Kahlil Gibran · English, Arabic
- Uniquely Human — Uniquely Human: A Different Way of Seeing Autism · Barry M. Prizant
- Thinking in Pictures — Thinking in Pictures: My Life with Autism · Temple Grandin
- Far From the Tree — Far From the Tree: Parents, Children and the Search for Identity · Andrew Solomon
- NeuroTribes — NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity · Steve Silberman
- Unmasking Autism — Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity · Devon Price
- Parenting at the Intersections — Parenting at the Intersections: Raising Neurodivergent Children of Color · Jaya Ramesh & Priya Saaral
- Sincerely, Your Autistic Child · Autistic Women & Nonbinary Network (eds.)
- Braiding Sweetgrass — Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teachings of Plants · Robin Wall Kimmerer
- Le piccole virtù — The Little Virtues · Natalia Ginzburg · Italian, English
- Paula · Isabel Allende · Spanish, English
- Hunt, Gather, Parent — Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans · Michaeleen Doucleff
- Parenting Without Borders — Parenting Without Borders: Surprising Lessons Parents Around the World Can Teach Us · Christine Gross-Loh
- The Danish Way of Parenting — The Danish Way of Parenting: What the Happiest People in the World Know About Raising Confident, Capable Kids · Jessica Joelle Alexander & Iben Sandahl · English, Danish
- There's No Such Thing as Bad Weather — There's No Such Thing as Bad Weather: A Scandinavian Mom's Secrets for Raising Healthy, Resilient, and Confident Kids · Linda Åkeson McGurk
- The Anthropology of Childhood — The Anthropology of Childhood: Cherubs, Chattel, Changelings · David F. Lancy
- The Cultural Nature of Human Development · Barbara Rogoff
- The Intelligence Nobody Tested · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- The Second Window and the First · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- To the Parent Carrying It Alone · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- Two Threads, One Cloth · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- The Double Window · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- You Are the First Teacher · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- Ordinary Magic · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- Graduated Togetherness · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- Holding the Room · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- What Every Family Carries · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- What It Feels Like to Be Your Child · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- The Father's Quiet Work · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- The Road Ahead · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- One Child, Many Rooms · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- Immigrants All · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- A Letter to the Educator · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- Making Room · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- The Table They Cannot Take · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- The Father's Formation · Paul Tan · Good Protocols
- The Power of Showing Up · Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson
- The Whole-Brain Child · Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson
- Transcend — Transcend: The New Science of Self-Actualization · Scott Barry Kaufman
- Culture Care — Culture Care: Reconnecting with Beauty for Our Common Life · Makoto Fujimura
- Unverfügbarkeit — The Uncontrollability of the World · Hartmut Rosa · German, English
- Slow Productivity — Slow Productivity: The Lost Art of Accomplishment Without Burnout · Cal Newport
- Designing Your Life — Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life · Bill Burnett & Dave Evans
- Extreme Ownership — Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win · Jocko Willink & Leif Babin
- The Wave in the Mind — The Wave in the Mind: Talks and Essays on the Writer, the Reader, and the Imagination · Ursula K. Le Guin
- Planting Seeds — Planting Seeds: Practicing Mindfulness with Children · Thich Nhat Hanh & the Plum Village Community
- What Are People For? — What Are People For? Essays · Wendell Berry
- Bowling Alone — Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American Community · Robert D. Putnam
- Rest, Play, Grow — Rest, Play, Grow: Making Sense of Preschoolers (or Anyone Who Acts Like One) · Deborah MacNamara
- The Gardener and the Carpenter — The Gardener and the Carpenter: What the New Science of Child Development Tells Us About the Relationship Between Parents and Children · Alison Gopnik
- Beyond Behaviors — Beyond Behaviors: Using Brain Science and Compassion to Understand and Solve Children's Behavioral Challenges · Mona Delahooke
- A Child's Work — A Child's Work: The Importance of Fantasy Play · Vivian Gussin Paley
- The World According to Mister Rogers — The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember · Fred Rogers
- Good Inside — Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be · Becky Kennedy
- The Emotional Lives of Teenagers — The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents · Lisa Damour
- The Self-Driven Child — The Self-Driven Child: The Science and Sense of Giving Your Kids More Control Over Their Lives · William Stixrud & Ned Johnson
- You Are What You Love — You Are What You Love: The Spiritual Power of Habit · James K. A. Smith
- The Sabbath — The Sabbath: Its Meaning for Modern Man · Abraham Joshua Heschel · English, Hebrew
- Embers — Embers: One Ojibway's Meditations · Richard Wagamese (Ojibwe)
- Ich und Du — I and Thou · Martin Buber · German, English
- The Mind of the Maker · Dorothy L. Sayers
- Attente de Dieu — Waiting for God · Simone Weil · French, English
- Adam: God's Beloved · Henri J. M. Nouwen
- Jesus and the Disinherited · Howard Thurman
- The Master and His Emissary — The Master and His Emissary: The Divided Brain and the Making of the Western World · Iain McGilchrist
- The Ecology of Human Development — The Ecology of Human Development: Experiments by Nature and Design · Urie Bronfenbrenner
- The Dyslexic Advantage — The Dyslexic Advantage: Unlocking the Hidden Potential of the Dyslexic Brain · Brock Eide & Fernette Eide
- A River Runs Through It — A River Runs Through It and Other Stories · Norman Maclean
- Gilead · Marilynne Robinson
- Shop Class as Soulcraft — Shop Class as Soulcraft: An Inquiry into the Value of Work · Matthew B. Crawford
- Falling Upward — Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life · Richard Rohr
- As Kingfishers Catch Fire · Gerard Manley Hopkins
The lap shelf (birth to about six)
- A Day With No Words · Tiffany Hammond, ill. Kate Cosgrove
- I Talk Like a River · Jordan Scott, ill. Sydney Smith
- The Snowy Day · Ezra Jack Keats
- Owl Babies · Martin Waddell, ill. Patrick Benson
- The Kissing Hand · Audrey Penn · English, Spanish
- The Rabbit Listened · Cori Doerrfeld
- The Invisible String · Patrice Karst · English, Spanish
- A Friend for Henry · Jenn Bailey, ill. Mika Song
- A Handful of Quiet — A Handful of Quiet: Happiness in Four Pebbles · Thich Nhat Hanh
- Fry Bread — Fry Bread: A Native American Family Story · Kevin Noble Maillard (Seminole), ill. Juana Martinez-Neal
- Thank You, Omu! · Oge Mora
- Hair Love · Matthew A. Cherry, ill. Vashti Harrison
- Eyes That Kiss in the Corners · Joanna Ho, ill. Dung Ho
- Alma and How She Got Her Name · Juana Martinez-Neal · English, Spanish
- Drawn Together · Minh Lê, ill. Dan Santat
- Watercress · Andrea Wang, ill. Jason Chin
- A Different Pond · Bao Phi, ill. Thi Bui
- Mama, Do You Love Me? · Barbara M. Joosse, ill. Barbara Lavallee
- Sulwe · Lupita Nyong'o, ill. Vashti Harrison
First books of their own (about six to ten)
- Frederick · Leo Lionni · English, Spanish
- Zen Shorts · Jon J. Muth
- The Three Questions · Jon J. Muth (after Tolstoy)
- Ox-Cart Man · Donald Hall, ill. Barbara Cooney
- Galimoto · Karen Lynn Williams, ill. Catherine Stock
- A Chair for My Mother · Vera B. Williams · English, Spanish
- Last Stop on Market Street · Matt de la Peña, ill. Christian Robinson · English, Spanish
- The Girl Who Thought in Pictures — The Girl Who Thought in Pictures: The Story of Dr. Temple Grandin · Julia Finley Mosca, ill. Daniel Rieley
- Mikey and the Dragons · Jocko Willink
- Those Shoes · Maribeth Boelts, ill. Noah Z. Jones
- Roxaboxen · Alice McLerran, ill. Barbara Cooney
- Catwings · Ursula K. Le Guin, ill. S. D. Schindler
- Where the Wild Things Are · Maurice Sendak
- Fly Away Home · Eve Bunting, ill. Ronald Himler
- Just Ask! — Just Ask! Be Different, Be Brave, Be You · Sonia Sotomayor, ill. Rafael López · English, Spanish
- Emmanuel's Dream — Emmanuel's Dream: The True Story of Emmanuel Ofosu Yeboah · Laurie Ann Thompson, ill. Sean Qualls
- Separate Is Never Equal — Separate Is Never Equal: Sylvia Mendez & Her Family's Fight for Desegregation · Duncan Tonatiuh
- Soñadores — Dreamers · Yuyi Morales · English, Spanish
- The Old Truck · Jarrett Pumphrey & Jerome Pumphrey
- Grandfather's Journey · Allen Say
- The Keeping Quilt · Patricia Polacco
- The Word Collector · Peter H. Reynolds
The middle years (about nine to thirteen)
- 窓ぎわのトットちゃん — Totto-chan: The Little Girl at the Window · Tetsuko Kuroyanagi · Japanese, English, Vietnamese, Spanish
- A Kind of Spark · Elle McNicoll
- The Someday Birds · Sally J. Pla
- Frankie's World · Aoife Dooley
- When Stars Are Scattered · Victoria Jamieson & Omar Mohamed
- Momo · Michael Ende · German, English
- The Phantom Tollbooth · Norton Juster, ill. Jules Feiffer
- When You Reach Me · Rebecca Stead
- The Tale of Despereaux · Kate DiCamillo
- Hatchet · Gary Paulsen
- The Wild Robot · Peter Brown
- Inside Out & Back Again · Thanhhà Lại · English, Vietnamese
- Brown Girl Dreaming · Jacqueline Woodson
- Way of the Warrior Kid · Jocko Willink
- Front Desk · Kelly Yang
- Other Words for Home · Jasmine Warga
- Efrén Divided · Ernesto Cisneros · English, Spanish
- New Kid · Jerry Craft
- Merci Suárez Changes Gears · Meg Medina
- Amal Unbound · Aisha Saeed
- The Bridge Home · Padma Venkatraman
- Wishtree · Katherine Applegate
- The Birchbark House · Louise Erdrich (Turtle Mountain Ojibwe)
The teenager's shelf (thirteen and up)
- Please Don't Hug Me · Kay Kerr
- Diary of a Young Naturalist · Dara McAnulty
- Born on a Blue Day — Born on a Blue Day: Inside the Extraordinary Mind of an Autistic Savant · Daniel Tammet
- Strong Female Character · Fern Brady
- A Wizard of Earthsea · Ursula K. Le Guin
- The Hobbit — The Hobbit, or There and Back Again · J. R. R. Tolkien
- Long Way Down · Jason Reynolds
- The Poet X · Elizabeth Acevedo · English, Spanish
- American Born Chinese · Gene Luen Yang
- Born a Crime — It's Trevor Noah: Born a Crime (Adapted for Young Readers) · Trevor Noah
- The Left Hand of Darkness · Ursula K. Le Guin
- The Hate U Give · Angie Thomas
- I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter · Erika L. Sánchez
- Darius the Great Is Not Okay · Adib Khorram
- The Sun Is Also a Star · Nicola Yoon
- We Are Not Free · Traci Chee
- Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe · Benjamin Alire Sáenz
- Clap When You Land · Elizabeth Acevedo
- The Fire Next Time · James Baldwin
- The Way to Rainy Mountain · N. Scott Momaday (Kiowa)
- Indian Horse · Richard Wagamese (Ojibwe)
- Braiding Sweetgrass for Young Adults — Braiding Sweetgrass for Young Adults: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants · Robin Wall Kimmerer (Citizen Potawatomi), adapted by Monique Gray Smith, ill. Nicole Neidhardt
True Frequency (eighteen to thirty)
- The Logbook · You · with Good Protocols
- Let Your Life Speak — Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation · Parker J. Palmer
- Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass — Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, an American Slave · Frederick Douglass
- Up from Slavery · Booker T. Washington
- Educated — Educated: A Memoir · Tara Westover
- The Glass Castle — The Glass Castle: A Memoir · Jeannette Walls
- I'm Possible — I'm Possible: A Story of Survival, a Tuba, and the Small Miracle of a Big Dream · Richard Antoine White
- Monster · Walter Dean Myers
- Just Mercy — Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption · Bryan Stevenson · English, Spanish
- Piecing Me Together · Renée Watson
- Ido in Autismland — Ido in Autismland: Climbing Out of Autism's Silent Prison · Ido Kedar
- …trotzdem Ja zum Leben sagen — Man's Search for Meaning · Viktor E. Frankl · German, English
- The House on Mango Street · Sandra Cisneros · English, Spanish
- Briefe an einen jungen Dichter — Letters to a Young Poet · Rainer Maria Rilke · German, English
- Project Hail Mary · Andy Weir
- The Dispossessed — The Dispossessed: An Ambiguous Utopia · Ursula K. Le Guin
- Always Coming Home · Ursula K. Le Guin
- Tehanu — Tehanu: The Last Book of Earthsea · Ursula K. Le Guin
- Siddhartha · Hermann Hesse · German, English
- Kindred · Octavia E. Butler
- Parable of the Sower · Octavia E. Butler
- Invisible Man · Ralph Ellison
- En man som heter Ove — A Man Called Ove · Fredrik Backman · Swedish, English
- Remarkably Bright Creatures · Shelby Van Pelt
- The Writing Life · Annie Dillard
- The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind — The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind (Young Readers Edition) · William Kamkwamba & Bryan Mealer
- Art and Faith — Art and Faith: A Theology of Making · Makoto Fujimura · English, Japanese
- Brainstorm — Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage Brain · Daniel J. Siegel
- The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog — The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog: And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist's Notebook · Bruce D. Perry & Maia Szalavitz
- Peace Is Every Step — Peace Is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life · Thich Nhat Hanh · English, Vietnamese
- No Mud, No Lotus — No Mud, No Lotus: The Art of Transforming Suffering · Thich Nhat Hanh · English, Vietnamese
- Phép lạ của sự tỉnh thức — The Miracle of Mindfulness · Thich Nhat Hanh · Vietnamese, English
- Resonanz — Resonance: A Sociology of Our Relationship to the World · Hartmut Rosa · German, English
- Situation und Konstellation — Situation and Constellation: On the Disappearance of Room for Play · Hartmut Rosa
- Rise Above — Rise Above: Overcome a Victim Mindset, Empower Yourself, and Realize Your Full Potential · Scott Barry Kaufman
- Beauty and Justice — Beauty and Justice: Creating a Life of Abundance and Courage · Haejin Shim Fujimura & Makoto Fujimura
- The Language of the Night — The Language of the Night: Essays on Writing, Science Fiction, and Fantasy · Ursula K. Le Guin
- The Scout Mindset — The Scout Mindset: Why Some People See Things Clearly and Others Don't · Julia Galef
- Pilgrim at Tinker Creek · Annie Dillard
- Knowledge and Decisions · Thomas Sowell
The wider school (voices beyond English)
- 自閉症の僕が跳びはねる理由 — The Reason I Jump · Naoki Higashida · Japanese, English
- 跳びはねる思考 — Fall Down 7 Times, Get Up 8 · Naoki Higashida · Japanese, English
- Nobody Nowhere — Nobody Nowhere: The Extraordinary Autobiography of an Autistic Girl · Donna Williams
- En riktig människa — A Real Person: Life on the Outside · Gunilla Gerland · Swedish, English
- Det finns ett annat sätt att vara barn — A Different Childhood · Iris Johansson · Swedish, English
- ich will kein inmich mehr sein — I Don't Want to Be Inside Me Anymore · Birger Sellin · German, English
- Je suis à l'Est ! — Je suis à l'Est! (I'm From the East) · Josef Schovanec
- Buntschatten und Fledermäuse — Buntschatten und Fledermäuse (Colored Shadows and Bats) · Axel Brauns
- How Can I Talk If My Lips Don't Move? — How Can I Talk If My Lips Don't Move? Inside My Autistic Mind · Tito Rajarshi Mukhopadhyay
- Fingers in the Sparkle Jar — Fingers in the Sparkle Jar: A Memoir · Chris Packham
- We're Not Broken — We're Not Broken: Changing the Autism Conversation · Eric Garcia
- How to ADHD — How to ADHD: An Insider's Guide to Working With Your Brain (Not Against It) · Jessica McCabe
- All the Weight of Our Dreams — All the Weight of Our Dreams: On Living Racialized Autism · Lydia X. Z. Brown, E. Ashkenazy & Morénike Giwa Onaiwu (eds.)
- Being Heumann — Being Heumann: An Unrepentant Memoir of a Disability Rights Activist · Judith Heumann
- Count Us In — Count Us In: Growing Up With Down Syndrome · Jason Kingsley & Mitchell Levitz
- Deaf Utopia — Deaf Utopia: A Memoir—and a Love Letter to a Way of Life · Nyle DiMarco with Robert Siebert
- The Country of the Blind — The Country of the Blind: A Memoir at the End of Sight · Andrew Leland
- 光とともに… — With the Light: Raising an Autistic Child · Keiko Tobe · Japanese, English
- 엄마를 부탁해 — Please Look After Mom · Kyung-sook Shin · Korean, English
- 博士の愛した数式 — The Housekeeper and the Professor · Yoko Ogawa · Japanese, English
- Une si longue lettre — So Long a Letter · Mariama Bâ · French, English
- L'Enfant noir — The Dark Child (The African Child) · Camara Laye · French, English
- Platero y yo — Platero and I · Juan Ramón Jiménez · Spanish, English
- Scener ur hjärtat — Our House Is on Fire: Scenes of a Family and a Planet in Crisis · Malena Ernman, Svante Thunberg, Greta & Beata Thunberg · Swedish, English
- 82년생 김지영 — Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 · Cho Nam-joo · Korean, English
- Haboo — Haboo: Native American Stories from Puget Sound · Vi taqʷšəblu Hilbert (Upper Skagit) · Lushootseed, English
- Ichishkíin Sɨ́nwit — Ichishkíin Sínwit: Yakama / Yakima Sahaptin Dictionary · Virginia Tuxámshish Beavert & Sharon Hargus (Yakama Nation) · Ichishkíin (Sahaptin), English
- Ttnúwit Átawish Nch'inch'imamí — The Gift of Knowledge / Ttnúwit Átawish Nch'inch'imamí: Reflections on Sahaptin Ways · Virginia R. Beavert (Yakama Nation), ed. Janne L. Underriner · Ichishkíin (Sahaptin), English
- Coyote Was Going There — Coyote Was Going There: Indian Literature of the Oregon Country · edited by Jarold Ramsey
- Ojibway Heritage · Basil Johnston (Anishinaabe)